IS YOUR CHILD ASKING FOR A PET?

Here are a few things to think about before you get your child a pet.

1. Do YOU want a pet? You will end up doing most of the work, so make sure that YOU want a pet.
2. What type of pet will fit into your family? Do you go on a lot of “get aways”? Who will take care of your pet when you are out of town?
3. Is your child telling you that they will take care of the pet?

A child has the best intentions when they tell you that they will take care of a pet. They really believe that they will take care of the pet. They may even take care of it for a day or two, but most children will not take care of a pet long term.

Here is an idea that came from a very insightful young man. Have your child take care of a plant for a while and see if your child can keep the plant alive. Talk to your child about the importance of taking good care of the plant. Read up on different plants and their needs. Take your child to the store and help her pick out a plant. (a small marigold or pansy is good, it does not have to be a big expensive plant) Maybe even have your child pay for the plant with their allowance or birthday money. When you get the plant home, help your child plant it in an appropriate larger container, or outside in the yard. It is important that the plant is not planted where an automatic sprinkler will take care of it. The point is that your child will need to take care of it. DO NOT do it for the child. Set a time period of a couple of weeks or a month and see if your child can keep this plant alive without your help. Maybe a gentle reminder from you, but do not do it for your child. If your child loses interest quickly and the plant dies, then be assured that even with the best intentions, you child is not going to take care of a pet. If your child maintains interest in the plant and continues to water and care for it until it blooms, then your child might just be ready to care for a pet.

So, if YOU want a pet, get one, but if you are getting one because your child has you convinced that they will care for the pet, you might want to try this little experiment first.